Don’t be hurt when a guy from an online dating site doesn’t show any interest, or doesn’t call you back. It’s no reflection on the exceptional woman you are! Frequently in online dating, men disappear after an indication of interest, an e-mail, or sometimes even after a great date. You never know his “back story” and how he perceives the world. You have no idea what is really going on in his life or what he is thinking. Don’t replay every word, pondering whether you could have done or said something differently and ended up with him. Think of this as the universe saving you from an incompatible mate. Since the men online don’t have another venue where they will regularly come into contact with you, like school or work, there are no ties to break. Don’t over-think it; simply enjoy the process of learning about yourself and becoming your most exceptional you!