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The “Langue” of Love, “Ooh La La”

The “langue” of love is not only French, but to each individual it is very specific. It may be particular words or explicit actions that show one love, or it could be tangible gifts or activities together. Maybe your partner feels loved when you literally tell him or her “I love you,” or maybe they feel loved […]

You Have a Photographic Memory

The power of your thoughts to control your energy is always immediately available to you.  Your mind thinks in pictures, so any time you want to retain your brain, you can simply create pictures in your head. You can either recall actual times when you had the emotions you are seeking, or create a time […]

Like a Flower Opens to the Sunrise, Open Your Heart to the Possibilities

“The heart is like a flower – unless it is open it cannot release its fragrance into the world.  The fragrance of the heart is made up of the qualities and virtues of our spirit.  Most of us have learned how to keep our heart closed in a world that would trample all over us if […]

More Than Words Can Say

It is widely accepted that seven percent of communication is words, thirty eight percent is verbal (tone or pitch, speed, and volume), and a remarkable fifty five percent is nonverbal.  Nonverbal communication includes your physiology, your posture, breathing pace and depth, skin color (flushing, loss of color, glow, etc.), eye focus, and any minute movements […]

Lost in Translation

Men and women commonly use Internet acronyms in their E-mails. Acronyms are abbreviations for words or groups of words formed from the initial letters of the original words. I never take the shortcut in E-mails. I am fully invested in the process, and take the time to respond to only those men who have piqued my curiosity; […]

Build a Man

Build your man up, tear him down. There is a reason it is said that “behind every great man is a great woman.” The polarity of the sexes, coupled together, is unstoppable. Our greatest leaders get support from their partners. Our most successful business people get advice from their spouses. Our most accomplished athletes get […]

Don’t Neuter Your Man

Men want to make their partners happy. If they can’t make them happy, they feel like failures. If your man feels as if he can’t win in the end by making you happy, he will withdraw. Give your man the opportunity to be your hero. Do NOTs: 1) Do not tell him to “be a […]

This Little Piggy Went Pink

I love a whimsical girly day enjoying an afternoon brunch in the company of a couple of my best girlfriends, then skipping over to a salon for a manicure/pedicure. Your hands and feet are a direct reflection of the attention to detail you pay to yourself. I keep a pumice stone in my shower and […]

The Beauty of the World Surrounds You Daily

If we look, we can find beauty in everything and in everyone. Take a day and practice finding the beauty.  Literally focus all your conscious attention on recognizing the beauty before you throughout the day. Find the beauty in your job, even if it’s one you don’t enjoy—appreciate what are you learning, even if it’s […]

The Eyelashes Have It

When accentuating the eyes, every protocol should include mascara. Mascara thickens and lengthens the eyelashes. It defines the eyes and makes them appear larger. Make certain to wiggle the wand from left to right to separate the eyelashes and avoid clumping the mascara. Start at the base of the lashes and proceed outward to make […]