Tag Archives: relationship

The “Langue” of Love, “Ooh La La”

The “langue” of love is not only French, but to each individual it is very specific. It may be particular words or explicit actions that show one love, or it could be tangible gifts or activities together. Maybe your partner feels loved when you literally tell him or her “I love you,” or maybe they feel loved […]

Like a Flower Opens to the Sunrise, Open Your Heart to the Possibilities

“The heart is like a flower – unless it is open it cannot release its fragrance into the world.  The fragrance of the heart is made up of the qualities and virtues of our spirit.  Most of us have learned how to keep our heart closed in a world that would trample all over us if […]

Build a Man

Build your man up, tear him down. There is a reason it is said that “behind every great man is a great woman.” The polarity of the sexes, coupled together, is unstoppable. Our greatest leaders get support from their partners. Our most successful business people get advice from their spouses. Our most accomplished athletes get […]

Don’t Neuter Your Man

Men want to make their partners happy. If they can’t make them happy, they feel like failures. If your man feels as if he can’t win in the end by making you happy, he will withdraw. Give your man the opportunity to be your hero. Do NOTs: 1) Do not tell him to “be a […]

The Beauty of the World Surrounds You Daily

If we look, we can find beauty in everything and in everyone. Take a day and practice finding the beauty.  Literally focus all your conscious attention on recognizing the beauty before you throughout the day. Find the beauty in your job, even if it’s one you don’t enjoy—appreciate what are you learning, even if it’s […]

Insider Trading

Here’s some insider information: If a guy feels you are out of his league, he’s not going to waste his time on you. A man isn’t going to ask you out again if he thinks he can’t make you happy in the long run. He is going to save those resources for the woman he […]

A Leap of Faith

Often times, we are looking for what someone else can do for us. We may get upset because our partner is not giving us what we want, not showing up for us in a way that “makes us happy.” Instead of continuing to look outside yourself for what someone can do for you, turn inward. A […]

Dream a Little Dream

Dream your ideal relationship into reality. Like a child daydreaming a fantasy, make believe you can create anything or anybody in your head. What would your partner look like, smell like, sound like, and feel like? Where would you go together? What would you do together? How would a typical day go? How would a […]

The Worldwide “Man Market”

There are so many options in online dating to choose from these days. There are online dating sites geared to certain age groups, while other sites are specific to level of intimacy desired. For example, there are some websites that are simply for making friends, while on the other extreme there are sites for people seeking multiple […]

“How do I love thee? Let me count the ways . . .”

First and foremost in life, you must love yourself. You cannot share what you do not possess. It is not egocentric to love and adore yourself–rather it is a sign of self-respect and self-appreciation. Once your own internal cup is overflowing, the love will pour out of you and spill onto others. Here are some […]